The courage shown by Adam Goodes on Friday night will no doubt be remembered as a key moment in the ongoing battle to rid the AFL and society of racism.
His passionate and heartfelt presentation at a press conference the next morning is likely to have just as powerful an impact.
Adam spoke about the pain and anguish a racist taunt from a 13-year-old girl caused him, “I don’t think I have even been so hurt” he said.
By revealing his vulnerability he provided a stark contrast to the gladiatorial public perception of Goodes, one of the most respected and decorated players in the game.
Adam said the abuse transported him back to high school where he was bullied. While the intentions of the girl were not to cause hurt, it provided a reminder of the impact racist or derogatory comments can have; no matter how strong or resilient one’s job requires them to be.
His words would have resonated with most people; the sort of heartbreak he felt is not exclusive to racism. Everyone can remember a time when they felt devastated by something someone said.
I urge anyone who can’t understand the gravity of this particular comment, to recall the hurt of that moment.
Whether it be comments about race, sexuality, religion or anything deemed offensive by the target, it has no place in our game.
Football fans are encouraged to barrack and cheer for their team or favourite player as much as they like.
The passionate voice of the fan is a major contributor to the special atmosphere of an AFL game.
However, buying a ticket to the footy does not grant anyone permission to abuse another person.
However, buying a ticket to the footy does not grant anyone permission to abuse another person.
AFL footballers are resilient characters, but what people must remember is that their family and friends attend the games too.
They should not have to hear abusive and offensive comments about their dad, mother, brother, sister, son, husband or friend.
Adam’s stance marks a point in time from where we should no longer tolerate the use of any form of offensive language at AFL games.
The reaction from the players and the public to Adam’s stance demonstrates the great work society has already done in this space and that the ball is already rolling in eliminating offensive language completely.
The high regard with which people hold Adam Goodes was a no doubt a factor in the strength of the response.
It is no surprise to anyone the degree of leadership he has shown.
In his press conference Adam was able to give context to the depths of his hurt and at the same time shift the focus to the welfare of the young girl. He stressed the need for compassion, as after all she had no idea what she was said was so wrong, and the need for education.
His response has provided an enormous opportunity to educate people.
He reminded us that despite how far the game has progressed since Nicky Winmar’s famous stance against racism 20 years ago, we still have work to do to ensure an inclusive environment for all.
Goodes said “racism has a face last night and, you know, it was a 13-year-old girl but it’s not her fault”. This is not just about racism and it’s not just about her.